Intergenerational conversations about the Genocide against the Tutsi are recognized as being both difficult and beneficial for those telling and hearing experiences. Over three fourths of Jehovah’s Witnesses reported that young and old in their family are open to conversations about traumatic experiences and that young can learn from their family’s history but should respect those who prefer not to discuss past traumas. Statements related to the emotional impact of conversations about the Genocide were more difficult to answer, with mixed responses. About half recognized that such conversations can provide moral lessons but can also be painful. About one third thought such conversations can do more harm than good and that children should not be burdened with others’ past traumas. However, only one out of ten indicated that they were “tired” of talking about the Genocide. (Figure 6.8)
The emotional impact of Genocide stories was felt by young and old but was strongest among older adults. (Figure 6.9)
Those with either direct or familial Genocide experiences associated pain with talking about the Genocide, especially for individuals who were personally targeted or had their family targeted to be killed. (Figure 6.10)
Over 80% of Jehovah’s Witnesses are comfortable discussing traumatic events with family, those in the congregation, and with individuals of similar ages and backgrounds. (Figure 6.3)
Conversations about personal or familial Genocide experiences are mostly limited to those in one’s immediate family and congregation. Compared with the Genocide Generation and Returnees, the Post-Genocide Generation is less likely to have engaged in conversations about their family’s Genocide experiences. (Figure 6.5)
Figure 6.8, View of Intergenerational Conversations About Past Traumas and Genocide
Figure 6.9, Cognitive and Emotional Associations With Conversations About Past Traumas and Genocide by Age Group
Figure 6.10, “Painful to Hear About Family Genocide Experiences” by Distinct Role-Situations Across Generations
Figure 6.3, Comfortable Talking to Others About Traumatic Events
Figure 6.5, Dialogue About Personal or Family Genocide Experiences by Generation Cohort
